This morning we told the kids about our move. As I expected, Meg felt a little uncertain about it, but we talked through it with her and I think she'll be fine with it. We'll make sure we process with her regularly. I'm proud of her.
Nic, on the other hand, was 100% excited. Since a conversation on Monday while he and Troy were out in the snow, he had decided we "should live in the United States". When we told him, he said "Thanks, Dad."
I'm sure there will be bumps along the way, but I am really relieved that they know now, and that we can start to help them make the transition in a healthy way.